In today’s fast-paced world, where numerous demands compete for our time and attention, it’s all too easy for important matters to get overshadowed. As parents, one of our greatest responsibilities is to pass on our faith to our children, but without a deliberate plan, this vital task often falls by the wayside. Chapter 3 of Do Your Children Believe? by author Terence Chatmon reveals the transformative potential of having a clear and purposeful plan to make Christ known to our children. Let’s explore how implementing such a plan can revolutionize our families and nurture a deep and lasting faith.
Prioritizing and Planning:
The chapter underscores the fact that our personal calendars and obligations are often filled beyond capacity. However, Chatmon reminds us that, as much as we may believe we can manage it all, there is a limit to what we can handle. Without intentional planning, our desire to nurture our children’s faith can easily be overshadowed by the never-ending tasks and distractions of daily life. By acknowledging our “one thing” – the absolute essential goal of making Christ known to our children – and incorporating it into our daily lives through a well-defined plan, we can ensure it receives the attention it deserves.
The Power of a Written Plan:
Research sheds light on the impact of written plans. Those who not only think about their goals but also write them down, turn them into actionable steps, and hold themselves accountable are significantly more likely to achieve them. Applying this principle to our spiritual journey as parents, we discover the necessity of crafting a written plan that outlines specific actions, devotional practices, and family activities designed to foster a deep connection with God. By committing our intentions to paper and establishing accountability, we lay the groundwork for tangible and transformative growth.
Involving the Entire Family:
Chatmon emphasizes the importance of involving all family members (if age appropriate) in the planning process, especially children. By giving them a voice and allowing them to contribute to the plan’s creation, we foster a sense of ownership and engagement. This shared approach empowers children to actively participate in their spiritual development, cultivating a genuine desire to grow in their faith. As parents, we can be amazed by the insights and perspectives our children bring to the table when given the opportunity to shape their own spiritual journey.
The Role of Fathers as Spiritual Leaders:
Do Your Children Believe? highlights the influential role fathers play as spiritual leaders in the family. By embracing this role and actively engaging in the spiritual development of their children, fathers can spark transformative change within the household. As fathers’ step into their God-ordained responsibility and become actively involved, the family dynamic shifts, and a newfound sense of purpose and growth emerges.
Trusting in God’s Plan:
While planning is crucial, Chatmon reminds us that our ultimate dependence lies in God’s plan. It encourages us to trust that God has invested too much in our families not to help us succeed as leaders of our children’s spiritual journeys. By relinquishing our worries and fears and wholeheartedly trusting in God’s guidance, we can navigate this path of discipleship with confidence and joy.
Conclusion:
DYCB serves as a poignant reminder of the power and significance of having a well-crafted plan to nurture our children’s faith. By prioritizing, writing down goals, involving the entire family, and trusting in God’s plan, we can embark on a transformative journey that leaves a lasting spiritual legacy. Let us embrace the call to be intentional spiritual leaders in our homes, working together to make Christ known to our children and fostering a deep, enduring faith that will guide them throughout their lives.
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